17.7.09

Divorce is NOT an Option...It's a Choice

We need to stop looking at Divorce as an option or alternative to fixing problems that we are





1. Too Lazy to work at and fix
2. Too Ignorant to attempt compromise
3. Too Selfish to expense a little time from our “busy schedules” to communicate about

4. Too Narrow-minded to seek other alternatives
5. Too Prideful to admit wrongful negligence


Marriage is no longer sacred. We throw this ceremony of infinite union around like we throw our bibles in the trunk of our cars after church. Marriage should not be viewed as a “Big Relationship” but as the conjunction of 2 individuals who have come to terms with each other’s faults, as well as their own and possess the willingness, patience and compassion to Empower the other when no one else can.

Divorce is NEVER an Option but a CHOICE! It only sounds realistic to the many individuals who never truly have understood what the vows mean when you share your soul with that of another.


"It’s not about sharing your body, but your soul."


Only one individual should ever have access to that and I challenge all to find that individual. You won’t find it in your bed lying next to you, or at your place of employment in the cubicle across from yours, or in the club grinding in front of you with a drink in their hand. You don’t find that soul until you begin to look deeper into an individual’s embodiment and past the temptations, past the surface art, and past the beneficial advantages that may be revealed at seconds glance.

Marriage now has become too much of a legal hassle and it’s true substantial foundation has been marred and altered to fit anyone who is willing to waste their time and money to pull it off. It’s all about the 3 carat engagement rings, the elaborate venues, the overly embellished wedding attire, the traditional uses of certain verbal exchanges, and the electric slide at the end of the wedding party. Basically, people get married these days;


WHY?

It’s because it’s the popular thing to do. Many don’t realize the sanctity that this ceremony is built upon, and sadly, so many more never will.



Easy Peace~