True Thoughts: “We are our own worst enemy; for we neither know how to be honest with ourselves first and foremost or offensive within ourselves, nor do we understand when to be
defensive of ourselves.”
This is geared specifically at the males out there who have yet to take responsibility for their actions involving the “seeds of your loins.”
The male population has continued its ignorant, insensitive and failed repetitious justifications for not standing up as men and taking care of our hopeless generations to come. Honestly, the thoughts of having a smaller version of myself running around feels me with joy and admiration. Maybe that’s because I think highly of myself and my abilities to guide someone of my genetics to great and new heights. So I guess the assumption can be safely made that men who refuse to take care of their children, and what’s worse, claim their ‘grooming projects’ are not as confident as they claim to be when they decided to lay down, or stand up (whatever’s your preference) and take the risk of ruining the lives of 2 or more besides their own.
Truth of the matter is there are barely any ‘Real Men’ left in this world today. Why? Because the males that were supposed to be there were not. This leaves us with a world of male individuals who do not know how to lead themselves, let alone lead and breed others. But this is not only the summit reason. This is the premier EXCUSE now for being incompetent and not WANTING, NEEDING, or TRYING to know the difference between wrong and right. Most males don’t even care to do better for it comes off as more work than worth. This type of mindset breeds laziness. What we are is a society that takes no responsibility for our own children or our own actions. We search for and even manufacture excuses to relieve us from our duties to others as well as ourselves.
I present this scenario to think about. Many women are starting to act in accordance with this same type of behavior. They are beginning to leave their offspring in places left to die, give them away to shelters, teach our children the opposites of righteous living, and even murdering their own creations AFTER BIRTH. With this being a growing trend, where does this leave an already ailing society in the midst of an epidemic? The conclusion is catastrophic once taking the time to hypothesize about it.
We as men need to stop “building theses bridges to nowhere” for our children to cross and make the same mistakes as we who have come before. However, we must become men first. The blind cannot lead the blind. It’s troubling when certain individuals feel the audacity to step up and distribute pure adulterated ignorance, yet many are not compelled to counter say these corrupt instances and the easy wiggle-out is “Who am I to Judge?” If you lack at least ‘C-List’ knowledge of wrong and right then I say stick to that state of perception until you have done some Self-Evaluating. Those above that comprehension, however, have every right to express their discomfort and righteously judge and acknowledge foolishness and hypocrisy; Not for our own self-inhibitions but for the ones who shall “cross those bridges at the twilight’s dim.”
In another insertion, I shall counteract the qualities that have been placed in the male brains as being “what makes you a man” with what in actuality defines a man and separates him as a father, a provider, a mentor, and a “wise old owl” from being a male parent, a contributor, a lecturer, and a “wise ole fool." I will also explain the effects a father has on the son and a usually overlooked party often involved in this negligence of responsibility, the daughter.
Easy Peace~
I agree 100% with this post. It kills me to see kids in the school systems and ALWAYS have their mother's pick them up. Somehow, we have remained in the pre-civilization era when it comes to relationship and obviously parenting. Yes, I do agree that the male should be the provider, but what happened to the woman's suffrage movement. Isn't that where women wanted some responsibility, or did they just not want to lay down and have a man in the house. My personal belief is that that movement was for women to become what Destiny's Child calls today an "Independant Woman" If you want to be independabnt fine, but don't drag my species into the picture just because you have a maternal instinct kick in. I refuse to be anybody's sperm donor and then you expect me to give you a paycheck monthly I think not. I was not born yesterday, I know what a trap looks like a million miles away.
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