Self Re-Evaluation is the Cure for a Judgmental Society

Living in a judgmental society can be an eye-opener and a door-closer for many. As hard as it may seem, many individuals come from a background where the practice of constructive criticism is well...NOT PRACTICED! Growing up either with a "silver spoon in your mouth" and, more so the opposite, with a background built of "unfortunate circumstances" can play a major part in one's ability to adjust and comprehend and manifest itself as a major burden now and later in life.

So many individuals are unable to adapt to the words of others in a positive manner. The moment something is received from another individual, the reactionary is either physical retaliations or the defense of those most misused words,

"Only God Can Judge Me."

In many instances, this statement is misused, misinterpreted, misconstrued, and misplaced in a conversation that is meant for penetration of positive feedback into a negative or misleading way of thinking or acting.

So what's the solution to counteracting this way of thinking?


Before we can judge another, we must first judge ourselves. In turn, we may be able to receive constructive criticism in a better light and for what it really is...CONSTRUCTIVE!


Bottom line: We can quote all the bible scriptures in the world and call on the words of 'The MOST HIGH' and more popularly, Tupac, when we see fit, but ultimately we shall continue to feel the effects of words spoken by others in the wrong way if we as individuals don't learn how to Self-Evaluate our own dispositions before others. This should be often as the world around you is constantly changing. Not doing so is just as bad as saying you are the unattainable; PERFECTION. Once the differences between wrong and right have been distinguished, we shall have or feel no need to even utter this statement. 2 things that will not change are that people are going to judge you both righteously and moreover unrighteous, and the staples of right and wrong shall remain cemented.


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