"Reaction" Check Part 1: How to React to a Gentleman's Courtesy

Ladies, now before you go giving a brother the 'red light service', make sure you have reacted accordingly to the situation and the type of male you have encountered...


The problem with the female population today is that many do not know how to respond to common courtesy of a gentleman’s behavior, which in turn blinds the true image of what a gentleman is, and how he acts. Many females are so focused on trying to claim an independent persona and putting up an abatis that their inward ignorance tends to expose itself in the wrong way, at the wrong times, and to the wrong guy. Last I checked a man who is trying to deal you any false impressions is not going to go out of his way to open doors for you, walk you to your car, or utter compliments of actual substance to how you look in order to earn your trust. Only the slickest of the slick have actually figured out that line of play.

My advice is if you are unsure of a man’s intensions, turn on your cool and remain level headed. A positive reaction may not always bare the results as you may seek, but we know for sure that negative words or actions will always bring about situations that can easily be avoided. This is called being CLASSY and using FINESSE.

"A little girl picks a good romance novel by its title and
cover; a woman at least knows to read the preface."

With all that being said, ladies start exercising good judgment before assuming the worst. The more fundamentally sound you become at this, the easier it will be to analyze a situation more quickly and efficiently and ultimately, score a "Good Man." I’ll be posting part 2 of this topic in the forthcoming days (How Not to React to a Gentleman’s Courtesy)

Easy Peace~